Denise Jolly

I was perusing Jezebel, a well-known women's interest blog whose tagline is "Celebrity, Sex, Fashion for Women. Without Airbrushing." when I came across an article titled This is the Best Body-Positive Image You'll See Today in the trending section. It's an amazing blog piece on an amazing woman.

Denise Jolly is an activist and artist that promotes self-love and care, as well as the importance of a positive body image. Today Shameless Photography released a photo shoot of Jolly, recreating the infamous hitchhiking photo Madonna starred in in 1992.

The photo got a lot of publicity, even Madonna tweeted about the importance of the message it's sending. In the The Huffington Post article about the photo, Jolly is quoted as saying 

"...it took 33 years for me to see women my size living proudly and unapologetically in their naked bodies. This is unacceptable. There are women, people, bodies all over the world raised to believe they are unwanted and invisible. We are not built to be invisible; we are built to be the cast and anchor of desire, no matter our size or makeup."

Jolly also did a 30 Day challenge where she took a photo of herself nearly nude in every photo and wrote somewhere in the photo "Be Beautiful". Denise Jolly is an amazing woman working to change the view on what is and is not beautiful in this country. She deserves all the publicity she can get, so I thought I'd help out and write my blog post about her. She stresses how difficult learning to love yourself can be, but it's absolutely worth the challenge. She also emphasizes the importance of loving yourself and your body in public, not just behind closed doors. Be loud and proud about the body you've got, be unrelentingly in love with what you have. As a 19 year old girl who has struggled to be in love with my own body, her words almost brought me to tears. She is such an inspiration and is a trail blazer in the fight for self-love.

If you want to learn more about Denise, and I highly suggest you do, go to her website here.

POC Representation in Entertainment and Media

I am not a woman of color. I am white, my ancestors were from Sweden, Norway, Scotland, Ireland and my dad tells me I have a smidgen of Portuguese and Ojibwe (Chippewa) Native American in there. You're probably not interested in my Scandinavian bloodline, but I say this because I cannot speak for the experiences of people of color and the media. I can only present facts and statistics on media representation of people of color. I'm an ally, meaning I can listen, I can sympathize but not empathize, I can support and I can help your stories be heard.

People of color are extremely under represented in entertainment and media. Often when women of color are in advertising or entertainment positions, they are white washed. In the past two decades technology has been developed that digitally lightens skin tone.

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In the past, negative body image and eating disorders have been treated as issues that only effect white women and men. According to a study done at the University of Florida, the media's glorification of pale skin, straight shiny hair and other traits that are stereotypical of a woman of European descent, have an harmful effect on women of color, whether they be African American, Asian American, Native American or Latina. Often women will go to great lengths to have these "desired" beauty traits and when they are unsuccessful causes major body image problems. (2)

In an article published in National Hispanic Women Coalition, it becomes apparent about how little WOC are represented and when they are, they are often represented in a stereotype. For example Lupe Ontiveros, a well known Latina actress in the U.S. is estimated to have had the role of a maid between 150-300 times (3). The discussion on eating disorders has been so polarized racially, that studies regarding the frequency of eating disorders in WoC haven't even been conducted, but culturally we see a major increase in negative body image among young girls and women of color. 

It's very important we begin desegregating media and entertainment. PoC make up 33% of our society and yet they are hardly represented in major forms of media. A big change needs to happen quickly, to stop the impairment of self esteem. 

References I Used!

Kite, Lexie, Ph.D, and Lindsay Kite, Ph.D. "Beauty Whitewashed: How White Ideals Exclude Women of Color." BEAUTY REDEFINED. Beauty Redefined, 1 Feb. 2011. Web. 26 May 2014. <http://www.beautyredefined.net/beauty-whitewashed-how-white-ideals-exclude-women-of-color/>.

Martin, Carolyn L., and Eboni J. Baugh. "Minority Women, Media, and Body Image." University of Florida - IFAS Extension. Web. <http://edis.ifas.ufl.edu/pdffiles/FY/FY113500.pdf>.

Web log post. National Hispanic Media Coalition. National Hispanic Media Coalition, 24 June 2012. Web. <http://nhmc.org/blog/?p=412>.

To Clarify Just A Bit...

After rereading my first blog entry, I realized that I was very one-sided on the topic. I want to be clear that men absolutely struggle with media's and society's ideals for body image too. The body image topic is very often geared towards women, and as it really should be as women suffer eating disorders, body dysmorphia, etc. much more often. Men however struggle with this as well, as society has an unrealistic idea for what a man should look like, how he should interact with others and how he should carry himself. From birth, boys and men are told to be the biggest, best, strongest, fastest, pretty much any superlative that can be correlated to strength. This is reinforced with phrases like "Grow a pair!", "Man up!" and my personal favorite "Don't be a pussy!" (because according to society, there's innate weakness in having or being a vagina). Not only is this a singular story phenomenon, meaning that all men want to be "masculine" or those who identify as a man are the only ones who can express masculinity, but it can be extremely harmful to a man's body image. There's also the fact that society pushing men to be powerful not only creates unequal opportunity for different genders, but it is a major catalyst for rape culture

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As many have said before me, it's important to empower everyone. All genders, all ages, all sexes, all sexual orientations, all races, all ethnicities, all heritages, all classes, all family situations, everything. Putting an empowerment exclusivity on men is dangerous to women and men alike. If this emphasis on men being buff, toned, strong and powerful continues, men will have the same self-esteem epidemic that women in this country are currently in. It's important to talk to our sons about how society and media portrays attractiveness and power in men, and that it's not realistic or healthy. 

In short: it's okay not to be buff, fellas. It's okay to not be the strongest. It is okay to be the strongest, ladies. Go ahead and get buff if you want. Or don't. It's okay to be masculine even if you are not male-bodied. It's okay to be feminine if you are male-bodied. Wear whatever you want, dye your hair whatever you want, tattoo whatever you want. It's all good. You are perf.